Second thought on the potty training

Ok, I think I am going back to my original plan.  I think I am going to wait to potty train Jack when he is about 2½ or 3.  Probably a few months after I bring new baby home.  I got excited about the idea of potty training him when someone suggested it to help Jeremiah get poopy trained but I don't think it is working.  Jeremiah is still pooping his pants.  Jack does like to pee on the potty when his bubby goes so I am still going to let him go when Jeremiah goes but I am not going to force it on him.  As far as Jeremiah with the pooping, I think I am just going to give up and let him tell me when he is ready to poop.  I feel like I have exhausted all ideas of how to get him poopy trained.  I think I am just so stressed about it that it is just going to him and making him more stressed so I think I am just going to drop it.  I may end up with the oldest kid still pooping his pants but I am just going to stop stressing about it. I think the most stressful part is the other moms.  The moms that are like 'my kid has been potty trained since 18 months'  GOOD FOR YOUR KID!! WANT AN AWARD??  Since we are homeschooling, he won't HAVE to be fully trained by 4. (I sure hope so though!!! We will see in about 6 months) If he turns 4 and he is still pooping his pants then I will seek further help.